Ultimate Blogs — Relationship advice
Lost and Found
Self love = selfish but that’s OK
When you are in a relationship changing yourself to please someone else can start out small. You forget that what you wanted in the first place, was to find a real connection with someone who wanted the real you and not just the idea of you. Learning not to get lost in it is key and Self love is necessary! But if you should find yourself in a dark place where you barely recognize the person you have become, don’t worry, that bad b-tch (or male equivalent) is there under somewhere. Some people may not care for them the way they loved the version of you that was always aiming to please, but I promise you, that the “new you” won’t GAF!!!
Two secrets for a long-lasting Happy Relationship
“Falling is love is bullsh*t, staying in love is all that matters” is a quote that I’ve paid attention to for many years, but even those poetic words couldn’t give me the answers to the questions I had when it came to creating a long-lasting happy relationship. Through my own personal experiences and interviewing couples over the years that have survived all of the challenges that relationships come with, I’ve found two simple, often overlooked items, necessary for cultivating and maintaining a long-lasting healthy relationship.